You answered the most important question and are now planning one of the biggest days of your life. Now it's time to ask the next important question. Who will be standing with you when you tie the knot? Asking a person to be a bridesmaid or groomsmen is a super special moment in your relationship. Whether you do it with a puzzle, candy, wine bottle, beer opener, or card. No matter what method you use to ask them to be in your wedding, make sure they are someone that will support you and keep you calm.